Mom of friend
written by Michele , June 04, 2008

My family is praying for those grieving James' death. I fed him lots of homemade pizza and laughed along with him many times with my boys. He was a rocker and a renaissance man with a hunger for knowledge. I have even seen him play his guitar with his toes! May his soul rest in peace with God.

We will miss you
written by Kaitlin , June 04, 2008

James was such a wonderful person and made all of my cla*ses so much fun! He had the greatest sense of humor and the school of education is going to miss him. We will all get to see him again someday!

Comfort
written by Mari , June 04, 2008

Even though I didn't know him I believe that all of us, should keep his family in our prayers. So the Lord may comfort them with his love. Pray for them.

A Friend
written by Meekus , June 04, 2008

James was a close friend of mine in high school. Even when I knew him, he showed a true sense of brilliance, talent, and caring.

I miss my friend. May he be forever in peace.

Wondering
written by Elso , June 04, 2008

Did anyone know he was going through depression? Did he leave any notes for any one?

James gave us a lesson to care for one another. His struggles was over and we are still going through them daily.

Live a James life
written by Marni , June 04, 2008

I love James. A trusted friend, poet, comedian, an insanely talented musician. I think he would all like us to encircle ourselves with the good things of the earth- good music, good books and good friends and live a good life, like he did. Tell people how you feel about them, like he did. Hold more hands and be more friendly. Have a bounce in your step and a smile on your face, like he did. And then he will always be near.

A thought
written by Brett , June 04, 2008

It certainly is hard, but I think we all need to avoid the "why" and the "how" behind this and focus on James and the friends and family he left behind, as well as the lessons people have obviously learned from him.

Let's prevent this kind of thing from happening to us again by being charitable and loving, and by doing all the great things Marni brought up that James did. For now, let's all just sit tight, thank God for the precious little time we've got, and do the best we can to attain some kind of peace at this time.

James death is a tragic loss
written by LAY - samoan sister , June 04, 2008

Gosh, didn't know it was this James..thanks KeAlaka'i for the picture. yes, I remember him. He seemed to be a really nice guy. The last time I saw him when he came to check on his test score, he was so nice and very polite. I'm sad that he's gone. I'm sure all his families and friends here in BYUH will miss him especially the cutest smiles.. To James: "My thoughts are with your family during this very difficult time. May you be forever in peace brother. Manuia le malaga (that's in Samoan - it basically means "Have a safe trip"). it's real meaning is "May you rest in Peace"

smiling person
written by seta , June 04, 2008

first when I looked at the pic was :? :? :? and then i thought no way this is not true but when I found out the real thing is happening i was :cry :cry and i pray to god to whatch over him and take good care of him and may he understand. I will always remember you James you always help me looked for books when I needed help thanks your kindness and sweetness will never be forgoten ....missed you and love you to his family we loved you.

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written by AL , June 05, 2008

I love my best friend. I was so prideful and thought I was so smart and talented. Compared to James I am nothing. If anyone wants to know about him, what an awesome person he is, anything, talk to me. I could tell you days of stories that will have you on the floor laughing. Ask me about his life though, because for me he is very much alive.

The one and only \"Santiago\"
written by Micki , June 05, 2008

James, or as the Spanish 101,102,and 201 cla*ses new him "Santiago" was one who touched my life in a way that I will never forget. He was and always will be his own person, never swayed by anything or anyone he didn't feel was true to himself. I'll miss him. He could always show me with just a simple sentance that I needed to chill out and stop getting sucked into the present. See you soon, Santiago

In the library
written by Ricky , June 05, 2008

I used to work in Media Service Desk just opposite to where James works. He's such a nice person and very friendly God be with him and his family!!

An Inspirng Friend
written by Claire , June 05, 2008

I have been graduated since last Dec. However, I've heard this news from one of my BYUH friends. I didn't pay attention on the name at beginning, but somehow I found out that he is that James who I know. James was one of my groupmates in Physics cla*s. He was such an intellengent person and problem solver. Because of him, we were able to solve the difficult Physics problems and received high grades on our group project. I am not one of his good friends, but from the time we spent together, he was always friendly and funny. He was so thoughtful and kind. He understood that we weren't good at Physics and he would take the difficult parts and also explained his solution. He was a true friend and brother. I miss James and will put him, his family and all his friends into my prayer.

Family misses him
written by Lauren , June 05, 2008

James is 6 months younger than me. We grew up together, we were kids together. So many memories of my childhood include him. He has never changed. He was as daring and adventurous as a kid as he is now. The news hit our family very hard, especially those of us away from family. I want everyone to know that our family appreciates the love and prayers in this time. We all miss him dearly. And to James, i will always miss saying "hey remember that time we almost died?"

just sharing
written by Hannah , June 05, 2008

James is a scool of ed cla*smate. He was in my music cla*s when he pa*sed. Though we weren't close friends i still had a lot of respect for him. He was a great cla*smate with a great sense of humor. My music teacher made a comment yesterday that James would've loved our session, and it was so true. we were running around the room, swinging, dancing and singing and it was so much fun. he wold have really loved it.
James, may you rest in peace. You can now be our guardian angel and help us with our exams and student teachings when we go out.
To James' family, my deepest and sincerest condolensces. James a was great kid. He would be missed by all who knew and loved him.

Great loss
written by Ashley , June 05, 2008

I heard the news about James from my sister and my love and prayers is with his loved ones especially his family....May he rest in peace....

Charity
written by Renee , June 05, 2008

I wish I could have known James but because I am an 05 grad and I'm hardly ever on campus, I didn't get that opportunity. I'm glad to learn he touched so many people's lives for god and that there are so many people who --from the sound of it-- brought many smiles to his face as well and shared unforgettable moments. At first I was so sad when I heard the news because it brought tears to my eyes to imagine the pain any person must feel in order to make such a decision. I feel great compa*sion for his family and friends. May the Lord bless you all and may we be mindful of the feelings of others, continue to stay worthy of the Spirit so that we may be in tune with its promptings, and always have charity, the pure love of Christ in our hearts to share with those around us.

Aloha \'oe
written by Pono Naihe , June 05, 2008

I did not know James yet my heart hurts for his family. I grieve the fact that he felt alone and forgotten to do this. I will remember James by living my life one day better than the last. This is my way of paying respects and remembering his life with us. My prayers are with his family and may James find rest from his weary journey on earth.....aloha 'oe.

James
written by Nicole , June 05, 2008

I went to high school with James, and he was always a very intelligent, funny, caring guy. He never failed to make anyone laugh. I hope his family is ok.
"... joy and sorrow are inseparable. . . together they come and when one sits alone with you . . . remember that the other is asleep upon your bed. "

A Great Guy
written by 47 , June 05, 2008

I worked with James for sometime, and ever since we established a respectful relationship. He was truly a nice guy, with a great sense of humor and intelligence. We would talk about movies and the world at the cafeteria and at the library's front desk.

He had recently purchased a red rocker type bike, and he would it around with his ACDC shirt on. I am sad I will not see that sight again. May his soul be blessed and his family be comforted.

love you cous.
written by hannah , June 05, 2008

james. what can i say your amazing. i grew up with you and your family. my brother modeled his hole life around you. i on the other hand thought you were crazy and i should probably stand back before all of us got hurt with your crazy stunts. but we all love you and miss you. keep rockin up there.

RIP big bro
written by Ryan , June 05, 2008

James was a great guy who never failed to make me laugh. I remeber when he almost hit his head on the ceiling jumping so high because my dad scared him half to death after he was wathching the grudge. :cry :cry :cry




I will miss you so much see you soon bro

My hero.
written by Emily "Dear Sister" , June 05, 2008

I've spent years in the shadow of my older brother. Not particularly because I was following in his footsteps [no I was definantly going in a WAY different direction than him] but because I was trailing him, like most little sisters do. Whenever we'd go over to cousins houses, they would worship him, follow him around, steal him away from my selfish grasps, and what he said was law; he was so cool to them. I always felt left out, but no one thought of him so highly as I did. We were both intelligent, I got the grades, but he just knew everything about anything. I'm athletic, and he can play guitar in any complicated yoga position he could put his body into. Mostly I just followed him around, he brought home some cute friends, always threatened them if they even talked to me, he gave me advice when I was going through the difficult parent stage, and I always felt and knew he loved me. But oh no, not as much as I loved him. I always said me and him were close. But honestly we didn't play a huge role in each other's lives. I had my friends, he had his, we had different lives, different goals, there was just enough age gap to separate our lives. We might as well have been strangers. I never got the late night cofee run @ a gas station that we always had planned. But we weren't strangers. He was always there, rooting me on, I was always there, praising him. I never could stop talking about how awesome he was to all my friends. I never liked to leave his side whenever we went into Wal-Mart or some place, because I wanted people to see I was with him, that this was MY brother; I wanted to show him off. I shared 19 and a half years with him. I still have memories of us [all three kids] running around the house singing Macho macho man. Most people try their entire lives to be different from the pack, mostly to just become another clique. James was always different from anything in this world. He was intelligent, he was so deep, the crease in his humongous brow told everybody that :], he was so funny, and he was so nerdy yet he always stayed so strong and fit. And he suffered. He was in pain. James, my brother, who could express things SO well in words, who was so incredibly eloquent, could NOT express the pain he felt, so just try and imagine that pain. He tried to hide it, he was always doing great, he was always taking care of everyone first, and he never got around to taking care of himself. But Jesus was in that room with him. And God had his arms around him as soon as he was gone, holding him, loving him. And now, my brother, my hero, my Jamie, is no longer in pain. And he wouldn't give anything, trade anything, to come back from where he is now because he's home; he is truly home. At first I mourned because I couldn't understand. Then I mourned because I was so angry at him. And now I mourn my older brother because of the pain he went through and suffered through in his life, and the loss of a part of my life that was too beautiful for this world. And the world will never be the same, whether the world recognizes that or not. I love my brother. My brother is dead. It doesn't seem real. I still can't comprehend it. But he is loved. He is with me. And he's smiling that crooked little smile and probably having a movie quote battle with God. I love you Jamie.

To my dearest Emily
written by Aunt April , June 05, 2008

:cry What beautiful, wonderful and loving things you said about James. You have always been close to the ones you love, and extremely loyal. James felt that same protection over you. There are so many "I'm sorry" and "If there is anything I can do..." statements, that you get so exhausted hearing them. YOU, my precious neice, are an amazing girl. Though your life is scrambled right now, James' is in heaven helping pick out the egg shells left behind. He LOVES you. HE loves you. HE LOVES YOU!!!! Nothing will bring him back, but his spirit will always live inside you - along with your mom, dad & brother. Though you are hurting and angry and confused - remember that we ALL are. Give Ryan the support that James' would given to him. You will feel Jamie's spirit there with you. And just think - he and Christopher are probably up there talking about all the awesome things that Jamie had a chance to experience here on earth - especially the Macho Macho Man!! I love you so much. I have always, and will always, be here for you. You can tell me anything. And if you want - just you and me will take off to the mountains and look for some "hot" guys!! :grin I love you so much.

My Best Friend
written by Rob Schill , June 05, 2008

wow. i really don't know where to begin. all of our lives we were always so close. for a long time you were my only friend in the world. you have always been an inspiration. recently you helped me through the hardest time in my life. if i have learned anything in my life it's that "what goes around, comes around". i know you'll be rewarded for your kindness and support. i love you james. you will always be remembered. take care of yourself. i'll be right behind you.

pink floyd said it best.

"So, so you think you can tell, heaven from hell. Blue skys from pain. Can you tell a green field, from a cold steel rail. A smile through a veil. Do you think you can tell. Did they get you to trade, your heros for ghosts? Hot ashes for trees? Hot air for the cool breeze? Cold conquered with change. Did you exchange, a walk on part in war, for a lead roll in a cage? How i wish, how i wish you were here! We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl year after year. Running over the same old ground. And how we found the same old fear. Wish you were here."


Your cousin, friend, and brother, Rob

James truly was a cla*sic.
written by Friend , June 05, 2008

I'll miss James. Our friendship formed at the library front desk. But, without fail, everytime I would enter the library and see that James was working, I'd say, "Hey Jimbo," He would reply, "Hey homie, what's crackin'?" It will be a happy day when I can say again, "Hey Jimbo." I long for the day. James truly was a sharp kid with an impressive mind. He was very talented. May we remember everything good, the many smiles and the joy that James brought into our lives.

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written by Ally , June 05, 2008

I have been really close to James, especially this last Winter Semester. I have heard of the very happy times, of the many very painful times, of confusion and about so many awesome things he was so excited about. I have heard about comforting his cousin Rob about his beautiful Emily, about his cool little bro, Ryan, about his caring and sensitive mom, and his dad, where he got most of his genes from. I have heard about Preston and Corey. I have heard about his crazy days and his not so crazy ones. I was proud to have him as a friend, like you were to have him as a brother, Emily. I would bring people into the library just so they could meet him. As I look back on days past I realize that James was my confidence. I thought he was so awesome and I valued his opinion over anyone's. He never failed to tell me what he thought about me, and after a while I took it for granted. He would tell me I was smart, pretty, a good person. He always saw the best in me, and I really can't say why. He knew how smart and talented he was. He'd never excessively talk himself up but just let you know that "Yeah, I really am that good". But I wish he thought more about how many people felt better, happier, more alive, because he was around. Because of James, I feel like I'm really worth something. He's broadened my understanding of so many things, he's led me through so many new emotions, and cared like noone else knew how. I am so sorry to everyone else who has felt this major blow. James is all around amazing. I am honored to have spent time with him. Love you James.

With love.
written by Denise , June 06, 2008

I knew James for three years. I had the wonderful opportunity to be with him for almost two years. In those two years I got to see the many sides of him, the intelligent, well-spoken young man he was, to the dare-devil rocker. I was fortunate to get to know him as well as I did. I loved all the stories he told me, from the adolescent days in Texas, well before I ever met him. He spent much of his time trying to make everybody happy, doing crazy stunts like dropping to the ground and start rolling on the pavement while the rain is pouring, just to make somebody smile. We became better acquainted because he decided to join band his senior year, and I was drawn to him, as I know many were, because he had that sort of personality. He could carry a conversation with anybody on anything, even if he really didn't know what the topic was. I remember the days before band, shredding on the guitar, unable to keep a steady beat, but even then people still admired his skill as he played with his feet.
James was so amazing that he really didn't need to do much to impress anybody, just being himself won anybody over. Even though many did not have the opportunity to make many memories with him, he still left a huge impression and impact, and I know he knew this. I know he knew how much he meant to a lot of people, and how loved and missed he would be, but he always had his reasons for doing things, and I respect him for it.
I'll always remember the times we spent together and the conversations we had, as he is irreplaceable.


To his family, I know he loved you guys and missed you, and the last thing he would ever want is to hurt you. I mean, it may not make sense, what he did, but he would not want you guys to stop whatever you may be doing for him. He'll always be there for you guys, maybe even better than he ever could be in person. I know he wished he didn't miss as much as he felt he had, but he was too hard on himself. We all wish we could have been there for him, but I'm sure he wished he was there for all of us all the time.

Public need the truth
written by Joseph Nawe , June 06, 2008

I would like to show my sympathy for the family left behind.

Let us made this as a lesson for all people not just for the family , the university and the LDS Church but also all the public.

By examining the motives and his problems together we could prevent this incident happens again in the future.

And remember, don't make this as an embarra*sment but treat this as a valuable lesson for us. So, Please don't be shy to share this lesson and story from the general public.

I remember you!
written by tiz , June 07, 2008

We never seem to think
That we are valued more
Than that of what we feel
That life is shut out
And our eyes cannot dream
But feel what is inside
As silent as it maybe
To know that we mean much
Souls precious as you and me...

I may not have known your name
Or ask your favourite colours
But I remember you
Your service, your smile ...
And I remember you!!!
Rest Easy Brother ...

James
written by Summer , June 07, 2008

James was such a unique person to me. I always admired him for how open and laid back he was about everything, but I am very sad that he didn't open up when he most needed to. As we all know, some answers just won't come during this lifetime, so it is best that we cherish what memories we have. Although we were in the School of Education together, I regret not knowing James as much as I would have liked to. However, during the times I did spend with him, he sure did make an impact. Having him in our cla*ses were definitely a treat. (He's the only one that could pull off warm-up stretches like a true 'rock star' in PE Methods) :grin He received praise from the local elementary teachers for actually joining in with the kids when we would do our PE observations, rather than just observing from the side. He was still a kid at heart, which made him such a great teacher. He is someone who I will never forget. I only hope that as our particular group moves on to becoming teachers, that we will be able to take all of these great characteristics of James and share just a bit of him with our future students. Much love and aloha to James' family, and please know that you have raised such a beautiful person who will always be remembered by so many.

James...we will miss you!
written by Tasha , June 07, 2008

I cried when I read the news.
As one of the only males in my education cla*ses, he definitely stood out as being funny, smart, and charismatic. I worked on many group projects with him, and I wish that I had gotten to know him better. One of my favorite memories was when I was trying to ask a question in cla*s that my teacher wasn't understanding, and he would repeat the question for me, intentionally making it more confusing. We bounced back and forth until it all just became a big joke and everyone was laughing.
I hope that everyone is praying for him and his family during these difficult times. I wish I could have gone to the memorial this morning. He was a wonderful person, and his legacy will last.

James
written by abbie mcginnis , June 07, 2008

I met James once. He was in his mother;s "new" cla*sroom in Cabot AR. There was pizza and laughter. As the year went by, I had the awesome experience of getting to know Becki. She is a mother like no other. Which in turn makes each and every one of her children one in a million. I know that James will be sorely missed. His family is lucky to have known him. Thoughts, love and prayers.

My Son, My Sun
written by Mom , June 08, 2008

Because of the outpouring of love from all of James' friends, cla*smates, co-workers and staff, and our family's friends at the BYUH memorial service, my soul was happy.....to see that my son loved and was loved.

Family can be together forever
written by Vicheka , June 08, 2008

Through God plan James and his family will be able to be together again in a safer place. He is an incredible guy as I've heard. Even though I don't know him, but I can tell by hearing that he is a brilliant student and friends and everything to everyone around him. His example has made his friends turn the way from hater to love. He is also a good example for his family too. God Bless James' family.

Peace
written by E.L.T , June 09, 2008

When my friend first informed me about this, I would not believe him. I'm a local girl from Laie and a byuh student, and you just don't think that things can happen like this in your town. However, I won't forget that night. I didn't find out until the next morning, but I could sense something the night before. It was weird when the electricity went out on the streets in my town because we could all hear it as if lightning struck. I remember hearing my neighbors and my family getting out and wondering what in the world was happening. I remained on my computer, but this unsettling feeling washed over me. Then, the rain poured like crazy. I'm not a superstitious person, but from that I can say that the Lord knows all and that his mercy is abundant. I know that James is at peace, and that the Lord and our Heavenly Father is with his dear soul.

Funny Boy
written by Aunt Beth , June 09, 2008

James always made us laugh! No matter what the story was, he spun it in a funny way. I will remember him in the waves at the beach, quoting movie lines, and the crooked smile. We loved having him around. Keep them laughing!

It is Ironic...
written by K.J , June 09, 2008

...people always says nice things about others when they are already pa*sed away, nothing is wrong with that...but is it better if we treat others nicer when they are still around us?

Prevention is Better than Cure.

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written by kay nix , June 09, 2008

I am just getting back into town to a computer. Becki and family my thoughts and prayers go out to you. May God wrap his arms around you and give you his loving care during this time. God will always be there for you.Love you Kay

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written by A BYUH Alumnus 2006 , June 11, 2008

I was imagining what if this happened to me, to my brother, to my sister, or to my friends... I suppose I know how the family feels about their son right now. I hope Warren family could get comfort and relief.

Being a BYU-H student sometime is demanding, frustrating and take a lot of energy, mentally and physically. I hope our students and friends in BYUH understand their situation and know their strength and take any reliefs which can be found on the university campus such as devotionals, church services, clubs, sports, study groups, little traveling with friends, friendships, etc, any positive activities that give you happines. Sometime you need to be creative... not all support can be found in our little school.

I have been living in BYUH campus for 4 years, precisely (while in Laie, I never seen my family back home for 4 years, even my family did not attend my BYUH graduation). I have to worked hard at PCC (Polynesian Cultural Center) and tried hard to manage my time between Study, Fun activities and, Church services and work at PCC. With His grace I could finish that challenge and graduate.

I really proud to all BYU-H students that really work hard to "hold the rod", and make their way to graduation, even with their challenges they are facing every day on campus.

May God bless you with more strength, Health and more happiness while you are working and studying in BYU-Hawaii.

To the current students at BYUH.
written by Aleni - BYUH Alumnus 1999 , June 12, 2008

I'm sure you have all learned a lesson from this.
Take advantage of the university counseling service when you have problems you need help with. Go to the Lord in prayers and He will always be there for you. My our kind Heavenly Father continues to comfort James family and all of you at BYUH.

With sympathy!

condolence
written by K.S , June 21, 2008

I want to show my condolence to Warren James.

been living there for 4 years,I will not blame him. He is not guilty.

thoughts..............
written by Abbie McGinnis , June 23, 2008

In the 8th grade, a good friend of mine died in an accident. At the visitation his father took my hand and told me, "Abbie, the Lord takes the best of them." At 14, I didn't know what he meant-- I am not sure I know now. What I do know is that we are not privy to the "why"-- that is why it is called faith.

" The righteous perish, and no one ponders it in his heart; devout men are taken away, and no one understands that the righteous are taken away to be spared from evil. Those who walk uprightly enter into peace; they find rest as they lie in death."
Isaiah 57:1-2

I Didn\'t Know
written by J Kim , June 30, 2008

I just found out. My love goes out to family and friends.